3 months

waaaah.. sudah 3 bulan euy... thx xecil, buat inputnya. gw dah join babycenter ama milis asiforbaby sejak gw tau gw hamil. dan gw minum vitamin2 dari dokter plus susu hamil. tapi gw gak bisa 2 kali sehari minum susu itu, krn perut gw gak kuat, alias ntar mejret2. dalam sebulan ini...gw jadi lebih sensitif. dalam arti, gampang jengkel. bawaannya pengen marah2. tapi cuman ke suami...hihihihi.. kasian deh obet... diomeliiiin mulu. tapi abis itu normal lagi. yah gitu deh.. up and down. gw beruntung banget deh punya suami sabar kayak dia. trus, jadi lebih manja ke robert. sebel kalo dah diluar jam kantor, ditinggal2 ama dia. pokoknya kalo dia mo pergi, mesti jelas, untuk apa, dan berapa lama perginya. kalo dia mesti lembur di kantor, gw pengen tau dia lembur ampe jam brp. krn menurut gw, dia harus dah bisa meng-estimasi jam kerjanya dia. robert sudah harus bisa memperkirakan kemampuan kerjanya dengan waktu kerjanya. hal ini berkaitan dengan nanti tanggung jawabnya sebagai ayah. gw jadi lebih sensitif dan gak terima kalo robert tau2 mesti berkorban untuk hal2 yang gak urgent. gw gak terima kalo dia dijadiin kayak "kacung" ama kliennya atau oleh sapapun. jadi.. sapapun yang memanfaatkan kebaikan robert dengan semena-mena akan berhadapan ama gw... hueheheheheh... apa ini bawaan orok? kalo gitu dia bakalan jadi "satpam" bapaknya heueheheheheh... segitu sayangnya ama bapaknya.. heheheh starting from 3 days ago, tiap malem, robert bacain dongeng buat si kecil.... hehehe.. dont know udah ngefek atau blum.. gw sih jd ikut terhibur. lucu deh... untung mamanya robert masih nyimpen buku2 dongeng jaman robert kecil. mudah2an nanti si kecil jd suka baca dan jadi anak yg kreatif. berat badan gw blom nunjukin kenaikan yg signifikan. sampe2 temen kantor bilang, kok gw gak gemukan, cuman perut aja yg membuncit (hihi.. ). mudah2an ntar kalo dah 4 bln ke atas, nafsu makan gw dah normal lagi. saat ini, cuman bisa makan banyak pas makan siang. so far, gw sehat walafiat...mudah2an adek bayi juga sehat2 di dalam. oke deh.. ntar cerita2 lagi tentang kami...

Comments

[Caecilia]

Wah, bagus-bagus!!
Gw dulu juga minum susunya sehari cuma sekali kok, itu juga sambil buru2 biar nggak eneq.
Kayaknya kandunganmu bakalan baek2 tuh, soalnya dah tau dari awal sih. Gw suka orang yg kayak gitu, bertanggung jawab ama badannya sendiri dan bayinya... Gw sebel ama orang yg hamil baru tahu setelah beberapa bulan!! Gemezzz!!
Top deh Esti!! Gw kasih jempol!! :))
Robert juga tuh, calon bapak yg baik!!
Wah, happy for u guys!!

[Endah]

Hi es, it's so cute to hear that robert read some dongeng for the baby ;) Maybe you could also get your baby chance to hear some classical music ? I heard that it's very good for baby's brain development. I once saw (long time ago) at CD's store there's Mozart for Baby. Maybe you & Robert could get one. Another thing, I think it's a good news for new mommies. I watched the oprah's show yesterday. One of her guest was a woman who has gift called 'Photographic Memory of sound'. She can read what other people health conditions or whatever through their voice. Her latest research is about how to read baby's cries. So new mothers are able to know what their baby wants, whether they're hungry, discomfort or else based on their different type of cries. For example if the baby gave the cry of 'neh', it means that the baby is hungry. And she proved this by conducting a kind of test to 8 women with their babies. She guided the new mothers how to know what the their baby wants by showing them the types of their baby's cries and what they meant. And amazingly, her method is worked ;) Those mothers are very happy & amazed. You can get the dvd about the methods through Oprah's website. I'm so excited to get one for you hehehe... It would make your 'job' as a new mother very much easier hehehehe...

[Esti]

selain dongeng, si baby dengerin lagu2 jazz ama classic. ternyata tidak hanya classical music yg bagus buat bayi, harmonisasi di musik jazz juga ok. yah.. jazz yg "gak terlalu berat" buat maminya juga.. hehehehe..

Eh iya.. i saw that oprah's show too... how can i get the dvd ya ??? pengen banget belajar euy..di sono enak ada class nya.. di buku2/majalah ttg kehamilan jg ada sih, tapi gak sedetail yg di oprah's show itu.